The Magic of Believing in Self-Doubt

Confidence, Think Big Think Money

The Magic of Believing in Self-Doubt

2 Comments 14 October 2009

The title might make you think, is Ken crazy? What's good about having self-doubt? Well, have you ever felt like losing yourself, having no direction in life? I'm pretty sure you have, everybody has experienced this kind of feeling once in a while, to say the least. But really there's magic behind it - the self-doubt will help you clear your headjunks and grow exponentially.

Continue Reading
How to Destroy Fears and Rebuild Confidence Series #3: Do What’s Right!

Confidence, Think Big Think Money

How to Destroy Fears and Rebuild Confidence Series #3: Do What’s Right!

No Comments 12 October 2009

Imagine this: you were back into your childhood 15 years ago (or whatever years it'll take), you broke a very expensive wine glass of your father. The fear of getting punished by your dad just overwhelmed you to the extent that you were looking down when you walked and talked, twiddling your thumbs on your way to tell your mom (I'm sure you'd tell your mom first!). That fear, that fear of being scolded and caned just dominated your whole little brain (maybe not for the American readers, but I did get caned by my mom and teachers when I was young). Why were you so afraid?

Continue Reading
How to Destroy Fears and Rebuild Confidence Series #2: Put People in Proper Perspective!

Confidence

How to Destroy Fears and Rebuild Confidence Series #2: Put People in Proper Perspective!

No Comments 10 October 2009

I mentioned public speaking as the No.1 fear in the country in my previous post. But what's really the reason behind that big fear? Why do people feel so self-conscious when others are around? Well, most people feel awkward when others are looking at them. Simply said, people fear other people. It's real and you might not even realize it, but unless you conquer this fear, it's difficult to boost your confidence.

Continue Reading
How to Destroy Fears and Rebuild Confidence Series #1

Action, Confidence

How to Destroy Fears and Rebuild Confidence Series #1

No Comments 08 October 2009

Let's talk about fears. What do you fear the most? Spiders, snakes, death? According to many professional counselors such as Shannon Stephens from the Augusta State University, the No.1 fear in the United States is public speaking (death is probably No. 2). Yeah, public speaking - the opportunity to get embarrassed and make a fool out of yourself by standing in front of an audience and talk. But, it's also the opportunity to share with the world your ideas and dreams, the chance to get recognized by others for you efforts and knowledge. So, how do you conquer the fear of public speaking?

Continue Reading
5 Steps to Building Confidence in Yourself!

Action, Confidence, Think Big Think Money

5 Steps to Building Confidence in Yourself!

2 Comments 04 October 2009

I recently reread this book by Dr. David Schwartz called the "The Magic of Thinking Big", and found this 5-step method to building confidence. I thought I should share it with you guys over here. This book changed my mindset about life 5 years ago and now it's still helping me to grow and learn, a true reading gem. I didn't think that I'd be who I am today if I didn't get enlightened by this book when I finished high school in year 2003.

Continue Reading

10 FREE Tactics You Can Use Now To Be Financially Free

@Ken_Siew Twitter

© 2009-2010 Kien Boon Siew. Powered by Wordpress.

Daily Edition Theme by WooThemes - Premium Wordpress Themes